
I emigrated to New Zealand from England 11 years ago. Over the years I have seen families come and go, and recently have met a lot of people who have come to work at the new corrections facility that has opened just down the road from Dunedin. So here are a few words of advice resulting from my own personal experience as well as that of friends and colleagues.
Do your homework
The first big piece of advice is....do your home work before you commit yourself to anything!!
Make sure you know about the region you are going to - is it rural or urban? What facilities and resources does it have? What is the population size? Is a geographically isolated area? There are a lot of geographically isolated rural communities in New Zealand which can come as quite a shock if you are usually a city dweller.
What is the weather like? For some reasons people think New Zealand has a tropical climate - that is not so. The weather varies from region to region and if you live in the Dunedin area, you need to be prepared for weather that is very similar to Scotland. This is all well and good but the houses here do not have the same level of insulation or heating that they do in the UK or Europe. We are hardy folk here - if we're cold, we just put another jumper on!
What is the social make up of the local population? Be mindful that some areas have 'troubled' communities which is why it is difficult to recruit people to work there. We do have problems with gangs in some areas as well as high domestic violence and youth suicide, so think about that when you are looking to settle. However, working in the less privileged areas of New Zealand provides wonderful opportunities for personal and professional growth.
Do not burn your bridges
My other big piece of advice is not to burn all your bridges before you come ie if you have a house in your mother country, do not sell it until you have lived here a while and are confident that you want to settle here. It is very easy and acceptable to rent here, so try renting for a while until you are sure what you want to do in the long run.
Cost of living
Do not automatically assume that the cost of living is a lot cheaper than it is in Europe and the UK. Whilst housing is cheaper, I would say that the cost of living is on par when you take earnings into consideration. Depending on where you live, the cost of food, gas and electricity is climbing as is petrol. Cars are cheap to buy and people make do with extremely old dilapidated cars that would not be deemed to be road worthy in other countries. This is particularly good news for teenage boys buying their first car.
Jobs
Do not expect to get a job that is on par with what you had in your mother country. This rings particularly true for men who come over on their wives' points/qualifications. It can be hard for men to get jobs and that in itself can cause huge pressures for families, especially if the wife does have a job. I have known a number of families who have returned to the UK because the man has not been able to get a 'decent' job. Chaps, you have to be prepared to be flexible and versatile, and may have to take a drop in employment status whilst you look for a job that really suits you.
If you are made a job offer, be extremely clear about the expectations and have it in writing. Again, I have known a number of people who have found that their jobs have not lived up to expectation which has caused undue stress and conflict.
Different culture
Be mindful that we have a different culture here in New Zealand. Whilst we are predominantly 'white', speak English and even drive on the 'proper' side of the road, we think and do things differently from Europeans. I won't go into the differences too much here but I would suggest the main thing to be aware of is that some things are not done to quite the same level as they are in the UK. By that, I mean that the prevailing attitude can be 'it will be alright, mate' but in some cases, they aren't 'alright'. This is especially true with buying a house - there is no where near the same level of checking carried out on a potential purchase that is carried out in the UK. On one hand that makes buying a house a lot easier, but on the other hand it can mean that it is easier to end up with a bad buy.
At the end of the world
Remember that New Zealand is a long way from anywhere (apart from Australia) and it is time consuming and expensive to travel. Whilst it may only take 24 hours to fly to the UK or Europe, it can be difficult and expensive to return especially if you have to make the trip, say, because of a family emergency. Family and friends say they will come out and visit, but often are unable to do so because of the expense. The same goes for return trips back home. So although getting away from the family can be a great appeal for emigration, in the long run it can be very stressful. This is especially true if you have sick, elderly family members at home, or you are bringing a young family here to grow up away from their grandparents, aunts, uncles etc.
Advice for Poms
My last piece of major advice is for those of you who are English. Us Poms are generally not well liked here. When it comes to rugby, cricket or any kind of sport, or anything at all, there's nothing a Kiwi loves more than the Poms being taken down. New Zealanders will even support Australia over us! Now this can be very hurtful but the way to tackle it is to remind Kiwis who got further in the last World Rugby Cup - England or New Zealand!?! This is bound to make you a friend for life.......NOT!
Now this all sounds extremely negative and I know that Kiwis may be thinking that I would be better off back in the UK, but there are some wonderful things about living in New Zealand which I will talk about in my next post.
If you are interested in moving to Australia, have a look at Bill Hampton's web site.
21 comments:
I think the point about not selling a UK house before moving to NZ is absolutely spot on. If you do sell up, it'll be very hard to get back into the UK property market, if you decide to return to the UK.
I think the point about pom-bashing needs to be put in perspective. Do kiwis think of it as being hostile or as just a bit of good natured ribbing? I can see how it would feel hurtful if you're feeling vulnerable and a bit lonely as a result of the move, but I think in some sectors of NZ society anyway, trading low level insults is a way of breaking the ice and sort of counts as playful banter. Pom-bashing is just one of the formulaic ways of doing this.
Another aspect of NZ culture which is different is that in spite of its jokey casualness and lack of attention to detail when it comes to procedures and rules and things, it is in other ways extremely 'right on' and morally serious about things. For example, when it went nuclear-free in 1984 and suffered US trade sanctions for it, people just decided right was right and damn the consequences. It's banned smoking and smacking children, and completely rejigged the education system (effectively getting rid of grades). In the 80's the government forced through a host of brutal thatcherite reforms and sold off a bunch of state assets. These are all cases where an ideological decision was made and implemented in its pure form. You would not see this in Australia or th UK or Usa where these kinds of policy decisions are always moderated and subjected to a series of compromises.
Thank you for your comments, Ken. I would certainly agree that New Zealand is to be highly congratulated on leading the world with some of the social policies that it has brought into being, some of which you have already mentioned. I have particularly noticed how effective the ban on smoking has been in the last couple of years - I have traveled around a lot and have really noticed how horrible it is to go into pubs etc where people smoke.
One of the things I would really like to see addressed is attitudes to drinking. I would like to see alcohol advertising banned and a much mores serious approach to recognizing that drinking is a harmful behavior especially in young people and not an essential part of the masculine scene, especially part of sport.
I wasn't very clear in the comment, but what I meant was that there's a certain 'hard core' streak in the New Zealand character that doesn't do half measures. This can be good and bad depending on your perspective. New Zealand will probably take whatever steps it has to to meet its kyoto commitments, for instance, even though doing so may be detrimental to its economic interests and won't make much difference to the world's fate given other countries' CO2 outputs. The point I'm making is that NZ is idealistic in a way the rest of the English speaking world isn't. It puts some store in doing the right thing, once its decided what that is, and it doesn't matter what the consequences are. This is only possible because NZ is a small pretty much egalitarian country without deep seated vested interests. It makes it possible to push change through quickly, but there's also something in the kiwi character the values the principles of the thing.
I personally have felt alternately proud of and exasperated by my country depending on which way it has gone on the issues I care about.
I am sure we all feel the same pride and exasperation with the countries we associate with. I love England with a passion but cannot live there anymore. I am proud to be a Kiwi but also still identify with England. So I can make claim to the best of both countries.
It's a shame that as a pom you have to get your WASP middle-class opinions in about South Auckland.
Worked as a MW in South Auckland have you??
You totally miss the point (and that's why you will NEVER be a New Zealander) - we are a South Pacific nation. The diaspora of Polynesians and our tangatawhenua are what gives South Auckland it's vibrancy and excitement, and contributes so much to the culture of our nation - a Pacific nation not a place for those who just don't get it.
That sort of bullshit just put's MW's off South Auckland, when those women are the very women we should seek to serve.
Dear Anonymous,
Thank you very much for your comment which caused me to reflect on my post and I apologize if I caused offense - that was certainly not my intent.
You are right about a number of points and I have gone back to the original post and made some changes.
I have never worked in South Auckland and I appreciate what you say about the beauties of the people who live there. I never intended to put midwives off from working there - there is a great need there, and from what I understand working there provides a great challenge but also wonderful professional growth and development opportunities for midwives.
I certainly did not mean to associate the problems with gangs etc with South Auckland - those problems are seen nation wide. So I have deleted my reference to South Auckland.
However, I do stand by my comments about immigrants needing to do their homework before they move to a place. If we are wanting to attract midwives to places, especially places of need, we need to make sure we support them in every way and that means making sure they are fully informed about every aspect of their move here.
Dear Sarah,
I just came across your post which is very helpful - especially the climate part.
We are currently in the U.K however my husband has been struggling to find a job for a while here (he is an I.T specialist) and as we are just about to lose our house he has been offered a job in New Zealand.
We are seriously considering the move with our 2 young children.
New Zealand really seems appealing as we hate the materialism here and as the UK is rapidly closing in on us we like the idea of more space and less people.
I am scared to make this decision as until we are there we really won't know how we will feel. If our situation gets better financially (and a miracle occurs) then I will definately take your advice about keeping the house here - even if for a month or two.
If we end up making the move it would be really nice to keep in touch.
Diane :)
Hello Diane, I appreciate your feelings - it is a very scary thing moving to the other side of the world. And of course, there's always an element of not knowing how things are going to turn out until you give them a try.
Just remember that moving here can be very expensive, and we don't have a particularly high standard of living here, so don't expect to come here and make your fortune.
Having said that, despite all our trials and tribulations here, I am really glad we brought up our children here. They may not have the same opportunities here as they would have in the UK, they have had a much less materialistic life here, which I think has been hugely beneficial. Have a look at a post that I wrote a couple of weeks ago that explains how I feel about living here now:
Hi Sarah,
Your talk of gangs is a bit worrying... What areas/towns is that specific to?
We are hoping to move from UK to NZ soon. My hub is in the TV/film world - there are SO many emigration companies available to find jobs/ease the emigration process etc - would you be happy to recommend a one or two companies that might be appropriate for us?
Many thanks
Susie x
Hi Susie
Like with any country or any place, there are the areas that are better to be avoided, and I think you are best to talk to local people to get that sort of information. Gangs pretty much have infiltrated themselves into every city. The key is to keep well clear of them.
All I would say to emigrants is not to believe all the hype that is sold to you by emigration companies- just remember the old adage about grass and the colour green.
In the meantime, if you are looking for work in film/TV, you're best looking at Wellington or Auckland.
I have no idea about emigration companies. We did it without one because it was cheaper, but that was 13 years ago. So, sorry, I cannot help you with that question.
Suprised about the comment on kiwis not liking poms ! I've been here just over a year, lived in the far north & wellington, travelled around a lot too in the South Island on business and never really had this problem at all. Some kiwis can be a bit kurt, bu that about it.
http://emigrate2newzealand.blogspot.com/
Hi Snapa, I guess I must emphasize that this post is a reflection of my experience and other English people that we have met here. Thank you for your comment.
Whoops, accidentally deleted your comment, Snapa:
No problem, nice blog, just starting out on my own one as you have probably noticed. Is it easy to set the link up that you have done?
Cheers,Snapa
Yes, the link is easy. If you email me, I'll reply with the html you need. Otherwise, hunt around on the 'help' section here for info on how to do it :)
Hi, yeah thanks got that sorted now. Happy New Year by the Way!
Snapa
Happy new year to you, too. Hope you have fun blogging :)
Hi Sarah
Firstly I'd just like to comment on your blog overall. It's fantastic! I'm going to bookmark for future visits.
I'm from London, England and have now emigrated to Hamilton, New Zealand with my Kiwi wife and toddler daughter. It'll be a week this Friday that we arrived.
First impressions are what a wonderful country it is! Clearly I'm in a different position to most migrents in that I already had a connection to New Zealand, however it took me a while to make the decision to give it a go and come.
I'm looking forward to exploring all over both the North and South Islands. I have a cousin for instance in Dunedin. However, my first priority after I gain my partner visa is to get a job.
Thanks to my in-laws, we're able to stay at their place until we're more established.
I love the roads over here, and I have to admit I do chuckle when my father-in-law suggests there's a traffic jam, when in actual fact there's just 12 cars in front!
I'll keep checking back for your posts. Also, I decided to document my own adventure and would love for you to visit my own blog if you get a chance.
Kind regards
Alan
Hello Alan, thanks for dropping by. I don't know how interesting you're find my blog because on the whole I talk about education and midwifery...the emigration posts only pop up now and again. But it's always good to hear from people with different perspectives on things.
Good luck with the move here. You're in a a good place because you have family here already...hopefully that will be a good advantage for you. Good luck with everything :)
Hi Sarah.
Thank you for your comments :)
I find many things interesting lol. Also, my cousin back in Boston, Lincs has just started a midwifery course so I'll get her to check out your blog too. I also have another cousin in Dunedin and we'll take a trip down South at some point. You'll be welcome to meet my brood for a coffee while we're down.
Hopefully your right with your point in that I may find it easier seeing as I already have an intimate connection with a Kiwi. I'll let you know :)
Thanks again for your comments and good luck with trying to get on a reality game show! I'm sure you'd make for a very interesting contestant!
Cheers Sarah!
Alan
Any time you're down my way, give me a shout...would love to meet up for a coffee, Alan :)
Hi Sarah,
Good points. I am currently applying to be a migrant (asian) in NZ. I have been in NZ for 7 months now trying to see if NZ is really for us. It is a good thing though that we didn't burn any bridges back home because NZ so far has been awful to us. Yes the place is quite beautiful.
We are educated, highly skilled people who can offer a lot in NZ. Very fluent in english. But the mere fact that some Kiwis have a problem taking advices from a migrant, an asian migrant specifically, is quite a huge problem. Maybe that's one of the reasons why they are so backward. They are rude and they will take you down in the workplace. If they have to.
Everything is expensive here, even the products made by their own. Housing is worse. And pretty much nothing to do.
Now we are already deciding to go back home. It's no wonder migrants here are also leaving and some of their locals as well who are educated and open minded are deciding to move to Australia.
My verdict: It's not worth living here permanently. If you are not rich enough, don't bother.
I am sorry you've had such a bad experience, Anonymous....don't be put off because there are lots of fabulous kiwis who I know will make you welcome :)
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